The Joys And the Sorrows to be a Widow

A widow is a woman who has lost her spouse. A woman became a widow is caused by divorce or the death of her husband. After seperate with her husband, a woman will live her life alone again or with her children if she has the custody for them. To be a widow is not always being so sour and bitter but also have the sweet. So, there are joy and sorrow to be a widow.

Some women may feel the joy to be a widow. When a woman became a widow, she can have many friends again. Maybe when the widow married she just focus on her new family and always want to be a good wife for her husband but when she became a widow she can a little bit free from her responsibilities of family and having friends again. Then, the widow will not get the pressure of household anymore. So, it means the widow can savor her life freely even though she need some time to recover after the separation. The last, when the widow is an independent woman and have a good job, she can have a lot of money for her life and her children. The widow will not depend on men anymore. She can fund her own life and will not worry about the cost of living. So, the joys to be a widow are having many friends, having no pressure, and having a lot of money.

If there are joys, there are sorrows to be a widow. The first, the widow may feel lonely. It is because there is no man or friend to share some story or to talk that consentient with her anymore. Then, some people stigmatize the widow is bad.  The people might think that the widow is not a good wife, she is not a good mother, she is not a good household, etc. This is can affect to her personality or psychology. The last is the opposite of the last point of the joy to be a widow. The widow may be find some difficutlty in economic if she is not an independent woman and does not have a good job. The widow can be poor and have difficulty to fill her life necessarry. So, the sorrows to be a widow are lonely, stigmatized, and poor.